Some months back, I was dating someone in my office who came for his youth service.
I really liked him, but he was not that keen and in the end, he moved back to his state. He called recently and invited me to visit. I agreed straight away.
I’m staying with him next month and I would like to prove my feelings by sleeping with him. What do you think?
My advice to you is simple— don’t do it. Sleeping with a guy the first time you meet up after a separation won’t make the event special. If anything, it will make the statement that you are desperate, or that you’re easy—neither of which will impress.
And after the way this guy’s treated you, he’s the one who is to do the running. Your attitude should be ‘if he makes an effort for weeks or months, you might trust him enough to have sex with him’.
If he doesn’t make the effort, be assured the only reason he invited you was to get a quick bonk— and run a mile.
(Bunmi Sofola)
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