My boyfriend of nine months is a hunk and I love him so much. Unfortunately, he is amazingly quiet in bed. It is impossible to know if he’s enjoying himself.
His foreplay is routine for him to get hard and, he also climaxes but he doesn’t even grunt!
How can I find out if he is enjoying sex with me and if I really turn him on?
If he gets hard and climaxes, when you make love, then, it is obvious that you turn him on. What we’re talking about here is his style of arousal.
Ask him whether he normally makes a lot of noise during lovemaking— or whether he’s just the quiet type. If he admits he’s normally more vocal, ask what you can do to help him make that noise. And, if he says he’s the silent type, tell him you like hearing a partner moan with pleasure!
Whatever you do, don’t force it, just encourage him— and if he does start to show his satisfaction through noise, show him just how much that turns you on.
(Bunmi Sofola)
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