I was feeling really lonely a few weeks ago and slept with one of my male friends.
He’s my best friend as a matter of fact and has liked me for years but I didn’t fancy him sexually.
Ever since we slept together, he’s been sending me texts and phone messages and it’s obvious he thinks we’re now an item.
I’m currently recovering from a messy divorce and I don’t want to get involved with any man for now. What should I do?
In a moment of weakness it’s easy to take advantage of an admirer but if you knew he’d always fancied you, you shouldn’t have led him on.
After so many years, his unrequited love appeared to be reciprocated. You can’t blame him for getting carried away.
If there’s no hope of love between you, then you have to let him go. Be cruel to be kind and explain how you feel about your recent divorce.
He may feel angry and cut off contact as he heals his heart, but if you share true friendship then he’ll still be there to support you in future.
(Bunmi Sofola)
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