We’ve been married for over four years now and
have two sons. Our sex life was good until recently when my husband, who is in
his mid 30s, started experiencing erectile failure.
He has since resorted to watching blue
films whenever we want to make love. This easily excites him and he keeps the
film on during sex. I find this very disgusting.
At first I thought it was to help him get
his sex drive back. Now I feel he is making love to the characters in the sick
movies, not me.
Could your husband be
worried about anything that could cause his not being able to be aroused by
you? You have to talk to him about how unhappy he is making you feel and why
he’s suddenly behaving the way he is.
It’s often
something that has nothing to do with the relationship that turns men off sex.
If he has lost confidence in himself, you need to help him find it. Watching
blue films together once in a while is healthy if it is what you both want.
(Bunmi Sofola)
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