I’ve been friends with this guy for years and we get on like a house on fire.
We both have great jobs and a good social life. The thing is, he’s really fit and sexy and I’d like to have him as a “friend with benefits.” I’m not sure how to bring this up as I’m frightened it might damage our friendship.
If you’re worried about damaging your relationship just by asking, think how much harm you might be doing by going through with it.
For you readers out there, Friends-with-Benefits is when you have sex with the opposite sex without being romantically involved— just friends. It might seem like a great idea, but it’s never just about sex.
In my experience, emotions will eventually always play a part in any casual relationship.
You already have feelings for this guy, even if they ‘re just as a friend. What you are contemplating will change things between you.
We all get the hope for a bit of rumpy-pumpy, but in this case you need to ask yourself if it’s really worth it.
(Bunmi Sofola)
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