I really fancy a guy who works a few offices away from mine. We eat in the same canteen from time to time and he’s often joked about his single status.
He’s also been friendly towards me.
I’ve since written him two letters, telling him how I feel about him and he hasn’t replied.
I’m a bit shy when it comes to talking to men. What else do you advise I do?
Do nothing. You’ve written two letters to this guy and got no reply. So, either he was joking when he said he was single, or he is single and doesn’t want to go out with you.
Either way, if you tackle this guy, you’re going to face another rejection.
He may also feel he is being harassed into having a relationship and might be a bit scared and irritated.
If he is, what he says to you may not be that kind and you will be hurt.
If you don’t want that, then accept he’s not the one for you and let the matter drop.
(Bunmi Sofola)
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